My baby shower was attended by my wonderfully crazy family who spoiled me rotten, and I enjoyed every minute of it.  Don’t feel guilty about having others throw you an over the top party and spoil you with gifts.  Think about it this way – this is the last time that you will be the center of attention for quite a while.  Bask in it while you can.

Plus, weddings and baby showers are those rare times when your family is all together for a happy occasion, so take advantage of this.  Start a journal on the day of your shower and have all of your loved ones in attendance fill out a page with their own stories, tips, and advice.  You’ll have a keepsake that is worth more than any gift in the world (but don’t be silly – of course you still want gifts). More