By: Toby Amir Fox
Whenever I meet a second-time mom, especially one who is expecting twins, I am often asked what I did to prepare my only child for the arrival of his twin sisters. My answer: keep it as normal and “real” as possible.
Noah was almost four when his sisters were born.When we explained to 3 year old Noah that he was going to become a big brother to twins it was very anticlimactic. He thought about it for a few seconds then asked if he could go watch cartoons. As the weeks and months unfolded we tried to prepare him for the invasion of two little sisters by talking about the babies and reading a few “I’m the Big Brother“ books. He asked questions and helped pick out a gift to give his sisters in the hospital, but I really don’t know how much he actually understood. At 34 weeks I made a big deal about bringing him with me for an ultrasound, I thought maybe he would get excited. As I lay on the table with my massive stomach and stretch marks exposed in all their glory, my son took one look at the screen and began to interrogate my OBGYN about his favorite foods and religious beliefs. I was embarrassed. Noah was clearly indifferent. More