You try not to compare your twins, but it happens. It becomes especially hard to avoid when Baby A is crawling and Baby B isn’t. Baby A is walking and Baby B still isn’t crawling. Baby A is feeding himself and Baby B isn’t. And the list can go on and on.

It is hard to see one twin get “left behind” while the other is making all their milestones. You want them to be able to do everything together and have this amazing twin bond, but then you start to realize this isn’t going to be what you thought it was going to be. It starts out as a two week skill difference, then 4, then 10, then 3 months, then…. Nine months. You know your twins are going to be two completely different individuals, but you didn’t expect it to be quite like this. More