As a mother of twins, I sometimes think I’ve heard it all. Everyone is fascinated by and has questions and comments about how they imagine life with twins must be. But as I sit here thinking about marriage after multiples, one comment keeps coming to mind, “God knows who to give them too.”

When we found out we were expecting our identical twins at just 7 weeks, a multitude of emotions ran through me. My husband and I had been married for five years when they were born, and I thought we knew each other and were as much a “team,” as we were ever going to be. Thankfully, I was wrong… very wrong. More